July 03, 2014

Dating Tips: Impressing a women on first date

Women are hard to impress! Yes truly women are very hard to impress and satisfy. It is really an achievement if a guy can get the company of a pretty woman, when the social taboos are put aside. Every man strives for one and few attain the goal. Pathetically, many young guys lose the female company by jut remaining ignorant of the ways of treating them on the first date and impressing her most eloquently. When you are getting ready for the first date, keep in mind the basics of attracting the lady and impressing her all the way possible.



  • Do not let her wait for you at the first date. Be on promised time and it is appreciable if you reach first and make her feeling royal by waiting for her. Have a simple but romantic gift for her. The gift doesn't mean a costly one, but a simple red rose will do the purpose. Welcome her most cordially by holding the hands and giving the flower.






  • When you meet for the first date, your first expression should be something that appreciates her or concerning her. Do not get into mistakes like talking about the weather the day or that she made you wait for few minutes.




  • Create the best possible mood between you

    • It is the mood that you create at the first meeting that is going to sustain throughout your relationship. Good words, pleasant smile etc., help making the perfect mood between the two. Be slow and attentive in talking with her. Do not hastily get into a lip kiss or hug.
    • Select a meeting place after enough searches. Let the place be romantic, calm and quite. If you prefer a busy restaurant or park your conversation may be disturbed by the noises and activities of the place. Let it be just you and the lady, nobody in-between.
    • If you are particular about the romantic environment, you can even go for a candle light dinner or such romantic activities. Do not allow her attention to divert into other things than you. Invite the attention by pleasing manners and promising behavior.

    Be polite, compassionate and complimenting

    • Politeness is a quality most women appreciate. Even if you are not polite by nature, try not to be impolite in your talks, behavior and manners. Some guys

    Why Some People Choose to Remain Single?

    Irrespective of the dictums outlined in religious texts and principles about the importance of marriage; the decision whether to go in for one or to remain single is essentially personal in nature where the questions of scriptures or rules of theologians should not come into play. This is particularly true of the current situation marked by extremes of stress, strain and struggle; in spite of all its techno savvy benefits.




    With much thrust upon competition and rat race; a man's common place existence is one of extreme struggle and strain. This in turn is working havoc on marital and other relationships based on close bonding and trustfulness. Sometimes the sheer apprehension that things may not work out fine on home front has compelled people desirous of climbing up the social order to stay single.



    People with a sharp or obsessive focus on career and personal growth often prefer staying single rather than bracing up to the duties and obligations of marriage. Paucity of time and personal inability to share and care keep them away from relationships and marriage.
    Other than social and economic factors, there are people who preferred singularity over marital status on account of their lack of commitment. Rather than going for the hassles of serious relationships leading to marriage or live in stands, certain carefree and happy go lucky individuals choose to remain single.



    It is true that humans, a part of the civilized society long for and cherish freedom. But it is equally important to note that there are ones including both men and women who cherish freedom to the point of selfishness. It is important or rather imperative that they stay single on account of their inflexibility and ill adjustability to come around to share and care for others. So the inability to compromise and need for absolute freedom from interference or disciplining goad people to stay single.


    Science of Attraction and Love [READ]

    Have you ever wondered what is the reason that we get attracted to the opposite sex? What is behind a relationship between a man and woman? Or what is the reason we find some body totally irresistible and often fantasize about that person in a sexually inclined manner? Why is that we are swept off our feet at the sight or thought of someone and long to be with him/her whenever we are free?

    To understand the answer to all these questions we need to understand the Science of love. Following are the two main theories that govern the science of love , attraction or attachment.
    Evolutionary Need

    It can be considered to be the central factor that attracts the potential mate to a creature in the nature. The same is true for human beings as well. As the evolution theory goes, if a creature mates with a weaker mate, the off-springs are also weak and may not be able to survive against this harsh nature.

    This might at some point of time lead to the total extinction of the species from earth. In order to avoid this, it is natural that we try to attract and also get attracted to a stronger, healthier and attractive mate so that there is no problem in the continuity of our heritage.

    July 02, 2014

    Read text messages between Dino Melaye's first and second wife



    Alero is the second wife of Dino Melaye who packed out of his house this morning. Before she left, she reached out to Dino's ex-wife, Tokunbo Fabiyi...and for some reason..I have screenshots of their convo...where Alero explains why she had to walk away after only 6 months of marriage. Continue...


    Photo: Bridge collapses in Ndi Ebe Abam, Abia State


    The popular Igwu bridge linking Ndi Ebe Abam to other towns collapsed yesterday July 1st when a 25 tons tipper carrying gravel plied on it. Fortunately no life was lost but now the villagers say they have been cut off from other towns as a result of the collapsed bridge which served as the only motor-able road through which the indigenes used to connect with other towns.

    Photo: Boko Haram female accomplice arrested



    June 30, 2014

    BET Awards: 2014 Winners [Full List]


    The BET Awards 2014 took place last night at the Nokia Theatre at L.A Live boasting live showings from the likes of John Legend, Jhene Aiko, Trey Songz, Usher, Pharrell Williams, Iggy Azalea, Chris Brown, Jenifer Hudson and more.
    Check out the full list of winners below:
    Best International Act: Africa
    Davido (Nigeria) (WINNER)

    Diamond Platnumz (Tanzania)
    Mafikizolo (South Africa)
    Sarkodie (Ghana)
    Tiwa Savage (Nigeria)
    Toofan (Togo)
    Best Female R&B/Pop Artist
    Beyoncé (WINNER)

    Janelle Monáe
    Jhené Aiko
    K. Michelle
    Rihanna
    Tamar Braxton
    Best Male R&B/Pop Artist
    Pharrell Williams (WINNER)
    August Alsina
    Chris Brown
    John Legend
    Justin Timberlake
    Best Collaboration
    Beyoncé f/ JAY Z – “Drunk In Love” (WINNER)

    August Alsina f/ Trinidad Jame$ – “I Luv This”
    Drake f/ Majid Jordan – “Hold On (We’re Going Home)”
    JAY Z f/ Justin Timberlake – “Holy Grail”
    Robin Thicke f/ T.I. & Pharrell Williams – “Blurred Lines”
    YG f/ Jeezy & Rich Homie Quan – “My Hitta”
    Best Movie
    12 Years a Slave (WINNER)
    The Best Man Holiday
    Fruitvale Station
    Kevin Hart: Let Me Explain
    Lee Daniels’ The Butler
    Best Actress
    Lupita Nyong’o (WINNER)

    Angela Bassett
    Gabrielle Union
    Kerry Washington
    Oprah Winfrey
    Best Actor
    Chiwetel Ejiofor (WINNER)
    Forest Whitaker
    Idris Elba
    Kevin Hart
    Michael B. Jordan
    Video of the Year
    Pharrell Williams – “Happy” (WINNER)

    Beyoncé – “Partition”
    Beyoncé f/ JAY Z – “Drunk In Love”
    Chris Brown – “Fine China”
    Drake – “Worst Behavior”
    Best Male Hip Hop Artist
    Drake (WINNER)
    Future
    J. Cole
    JAY Z
    Kendrick Lamar
    Best Female Hip Hop Artist
    Nicki Minaj (WINNER)

    Angel Haze
    Charli Baltimore
    Eve
    Iggy Azalea
    Best Group
    Young Money (WINNER)

    A$AP Mob
    Daft Punk
    Macklemore & Ryan Lewis
    TGT
    Subway Sportsman of the Year
    Kevin Durant (WINNER)
    Floyd Mayweather Jr.
    Carmelo Anthony
    Blake Griffin
    LeBron James
    Subway Sportswoman of the Year
    Serena Williams (WINNER)

    Brittney Griner
    Lolo Jones
    Skylar Diggins
    Venus Williams
    Best Gospel Artist
    Tamela Mann (WINNER)
    Donnie McClurkin
    Erica Campbell
    Hezekiah Walker
    Tye Tribbett
    Best New Artist
    August Alsina (WINNER)
    Ariana Grande
    Mack Wilds
    Rich Homie Quan
    ScHoolboy Q
    YoungStars Award
    KeKe Palmer (WINNER)
    Gabrielle Douglas
    Jacob Latimore
    Jaden Smith
    Zendaya
    Centric Award
    Jhené Aiko – “The Worst” (WINNER)
    Aloe Blacc – “The Man”
    Jennifer Hudson f/ T.I. – “I Can’t Describe (The Way I Feel)”
    LiV Warfield – “Why Do You Lie?”
    Wale f/ Sam Dew – “LoveHate Thing”
    Best International Act: UK
     Krept & Konan (WINNER)
    Dizzee Rascal
    Ghetts
    Laura Mvula
    Rita Ora
    Tinie Tempah
    Video Director of the Year
    Hype Williams (WINNER)
    Benny Boom
    Chris Brown
    Colin Tilley
    Director X

    June 29, 2014

    UN Warns Britain Over Child Voodoo Rituals, P.edophile Sex Tourists

    Hundreds of children are being kidnapped in Africa and bought to the UK for voodoo rituals, a UN watchdog said, also voicing alarm about the number of British craddle-robbers who prey on children abroad.

    The United Nations Committee on the Rights of the Child (CRC) urged Britain to do more to stop this brutal form of people trafficking.

    “We’re concerned about reports that hundreds of children have been abducted from their families in Africa and trafficked to the UK, especially London, for religious rituals,” Kirsten Sandberg, head of the CRC and a former Norwegian Supreme Court judge, said Thursday.

    She said that trafficking for rituals was part of a wider problem where thousands of minors are brought to the UK, who end up being child prostitutes or being sexually exploited.

    The CRC advised that Britain should “strengthen the capacity of law-enforcement authorities and judiciary to detect and prosecute trafficking of children for labor, intimate and other forms of exploitation, including for religious rituals.”

    There have been numerous cases of children who have been brought to the UK from Africa and suffered torture and abuse, often as part of witchcraft rituals, AFP reports.

    Victoria Climbie from the Ivory Coast was killed by her own relatives in 2000, who thought she was a witch.

    More recently, in March 2012, Eric Bikubi and Magalie Bamu, both from the Democratic Republic of Congo, who moved to London, were found guilty of murdering Magalie’s teenage brother, Kirsty.
    The prosecution argued that Bikubi had a “profound and disturbing” belief in witchcraft and although the defense said that Bikubi was suffering from schizophrenia, the judge sentenced both defendants to life in prison.

    A year later the Metropolitan Police found the dismembered corpse of a Nigerian boy in the River Thames, who they believed was a victim of a ritual.

    The CRC also warned about the number of British craddle-robbers who travel abroad – most notably to Southeast Asia, particularly Cambodia and Thailand, for sex with children. Orphanages were a favored destination where sex predators could pick on vulnerable kids.

    “There are continued reports that United Kingdom citizens, including some convicted sex offenders, set up charities or travel abroad, where they sexually abuse children,” Sandberg said.

    She called on the British government to get its act together to toughen identification, investigation and prosecution of British citizens involved in such crimes, as well making sure convicted and known craddle-robbers do not travel abroad.

    The UK government has said that new orders can now be applied to individuals who are deemed to pose a risk of intimate harm, even if they have never been convicted.

    A national group led by the Home Office will look at ways the police and other agencies can better detect and combat sex offenders.

    “Our two new civil prevention orders will make it easier to restrict the movement and activities of anyone who poses a risk of causing intimate harm to children and adults – not just those who have been convicted of intimate offences,” Norman Baker, the crime prevention minister, said in a statement.

    A BBC journalist posing as a children’s trafficker trawled the bars and cafés of the Kampala underworld in Uganda in 2011. He found a kidnapper who boasted he could “offer as many children as required” without the police knowing for $15,600 a child.

    June 27, 2014

    ‘Rapture’ According To The Bible Teaching

    ‘RAPTURE’

    I cannot remember vividly if the Bible used the word RAPTURE in any way. Or better still I cannot remember ever seen the word Rapture in the Bible. I stand to be corrected. Though the word itself depicts the taken to heaven of the saints when Christ comes the second time. I am totally in agreement with the definition adduced to the word RAPTURE. Normally the word - bearing in mind the magnitude of what it stands for – should be seen in the same category in the Bible as words like judgement, righteousness, salvation, faith, sin, love, law, grace, mercy etc.

    Having said that the word RAPTURE is not a biblical word, the meaning people attributed to it is a major future event in the bible. Therefore, I am going to discuss RAPTURE from the context of it meaning.

    The book of Daniel in the Old Testament and the book of Revelation in the New Testament made significant analysis of powers, gospel, visions, judgements, new Jerusalem, Heaven, beast, dragon, the woman, testimony of Jesus Christ, horses of different colours, fire etc. all those aforementioned above are related to Christ Second coming.

    Before I go deep into the integrity of how the second coming will unfold, I need to reiterate that many films and movies have acted RAPTURE. I have watched some of these movies but they are quite contrary to the process that is involved in the second coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. The general believe is that people will be in twos, in threes and in groups and the saint will just disappear while the unjust will be left behind. It is quite true that the bible says two people will be walking together, one will be taken, and the other will not. I perfectly agree with that, but the scenario goes beyond that. Matt24:37-41 say 37 ‘For as were the days of Noah, so will be the coming of the Son of Man. 38 For as in those days before the flood they were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, until the day when Noah entered the ark, 39 and they were unaware until the flood came and swept them all away, so will be the coming of the Son of Man. 40 Then two men will be in the field; one will be taken and one left. 41 Two women will be grinding at the mill; one will be taken and one left’.

    Going by what Christ says, His coming the second time will not be, until the gospel has been preached to the whole world as witness Matt 24: 14 ‘And this gospel of the kingdom will be proclaimed throughout the whole world as a testimony to all nations, and then the end will come’. Christ also says (Matt24;36) “But concerning that day and hour no one knows, not even the angels of heaven, nor the Son, but the Father only.

    Many self-acclaimed seers have predicted in the past the time and day that Christ would be coming. To my great surprised many Christians fell for this, and sold or gave away their belongings. Brethren where is your bible? Matt 24:23-27 ‘Then if anyone says to you, ‘look, here is the Christ!’ or ‘There he is!’ do not believe it. 24 For false Christ and false prophets will arise and perform great signs and wonders, so as to lead astray, if possible, even the elect. 25 See, I have told you beforehand. 26 So, if they say to you, ‘Look, he is in the wilderness,’ do not go out. If they say, ‘Look, he is in the inner rooms,’ do not believe it. 27 For as the lightning comes from the east and shines as far as the west, so will be the coming of the Son of Man’. This is exactly where I disagree with peoples’ theory of RAPTURE where is it believed that only the saved that are raptured will see Christ coming. As lighting cannot be hiding, so also His coming. All eyes will see Him but only the saints would be able to stand while the unjust would be running to the rock and be asking the rocks to fall on them.

    Christ second coming (RAPTURE AS PEOPLE TERMED IT) as explained in the book of Revelation is in total agreement with how Christ Himself described it in the book of Matt 24. At His second coming, there will be four (4) different groups of people on earth: the living righteous; the righteous dead; the living unjust and the unjust dead. Before I continue can I quickly mention that Christ Second coming and His judgement will not happen simultaneously? According to the book of revelation chapter 20; judgement will come after the 1000years reign of the righteous with Christ in heaven.

    Back to the Rapture stuff, at the Second coming of Christ, a loud trumpet shall sound, Christ shall appear in the cloud on a white horse, at the sound of this trumpet, the dead in Christ shall rise and will be cut up with Christ after which the living righteous will be cut up with Him as well. According to the book of Matthew account, all eyes shall see him both of the just and the wicked. Christ’s feet will not touch the earth at the second coming until the earth is cleanse of all it unrighteousness. Both the dead and living righteous will go to heaven with him for 1000 years. Rev 20:4 ‘Then I saw thrones, and seated on them were those to whom the authority to judge was committed. Also I saw the souls of those who had been beheaded for the testimony of Jesus and for the word of God, and those who had not worshiped the beast or its image and had not received its mark on their foreheads or their hands. They came to life and reigned with Christ for a thousand years.

    The unjust dead will remain in their tomb until the end of the 1000years Rev 20:5. 5 ‘The rest of the dead did not come to life until the thousand years were ended. This is the first resurrection’. The living unjust will still be alive but will not have the opportunity of repenting anymore because by then Christ would have pronounced that let the righteous remain righteous and let the unjust remain unjust. No more chance to repent at this time. Satan will be bounded and throw into the bottomless pit for the 1000years and will be made inactive. ‘Then I saw an angel coming down from heaven, holding in his hand the key to the bottomless pit and a great chain. 2 And he seized the dragon, that ancient serpent, who is the devil and Satan, and bound him for a thousand years, 3 and threw him into the pit, and shut it and sealed it over him, so that he might not deceive the nations any longer, until the thousand years were ended. After that he must be released for a little while’; Rev 20:1-3.

    After the 1000years, Satan will be released for a while Rev 20: 7-8 ‘And when the thousand years are ended, Satan will be released from his prison 8 and will come out to deceive the nations that are at the four corners of the earth, Gog and Magog, to gather them for battle; their number is like the sand of the sea. The book will be opened and both the unjust dead and the unjust living will be judged according to the book of life. He whose name is not found in the book of life will be judged to eternal destruction (second death). It simply means that even the unjust dead will be resurrected to face judgement, Act 24:15 15 ‘having a hope in God, which these men themselves accept, that there will be a resurrection of both the just and the unjust.
    Satan will gather all the wicked ones in an attempt to take the New Jerusalem but will not succeed. There is the misconception that those who will not make it to heaven for the 1000years but are still living can be saved by sacrificing their own blood. Brethren, this is a false and wrong teaching. There is nowhere in the entire bible where such was mentioned. Judgement is another topic for another time, God bless.

    June 26, 2014

    If You Have Not Seen This - It's Worth The Read

    Lawyers should never ask a Georgia grandma a question if they aren't prepared for the answer.

    In a trial, a Southern small-town prosecuting attorney called his first witness, a grandmotherly, elderly woman to the stand. He approached her and asked, 'Mrs. Jones, do you know me?' She responded, 'Why, yes, I do know you, Mr. Williams. I've known you since you were a boy, and frankly, you've been a big disappointment to me. You lie, you cheat on your wife, and you manipulate people and talk about them behind their backs. You think you're a big shot when you haven't the brains to realize you'll never amount to anything more than a two-bit paper pusher. Yes, I know you.'

    The lawyer was stunned. Not knowing what else to do, he pointed across the room and asked, 'Mrs. Jones, do you know the defense attorney?'